Wednesday, November 26, 2014

human communication- interpersonal communication

Interpersonal is communication about more than 1 person involved. there have three type of principles. First is principles of turn-taking, as conversational turns, there is an active exchange of role of between speakers and listeners. Inside principles of turn taking include turn-maintaining, turn yielding, turn requesting and turn denying. Turn maintaining is speaker role to maintain conversational cues, example paralanguage and eye contact. Turn yielding is speaker done talking  and wished to listen, example  gestures and verbal. Turn requesting is listener wanna to speak. example butting and paralanguage. Turn denying is listener dont want continue this conversation. example, shaking head and looking away. Second is principles of dialogue is two person share messages to one another.   Last is principles of immediacy is consideration the relationship and intimacy of one another.

There have four kind, small talk, excuses and apologies, complimenting and advice. Small talk is we slowly introduce ourselves into a bigger issue or message. Complimenting and advice is message of praise. type of advice of interpersonal communication, explore options is to seek out alternatives. Expert advice is emphasize or deemphasize their beliefs and inclinations. Delay decision is delay their decision.
Contact is where people become aware of one another existence. Perceptual and interaction in this stages. Involvement is where people have tighter bonds and engagements with one another. testing and intensifying stage in this stages. Intimacy is where people have a deep and committed relationship with one another, make relationship grow strong , explicit displays of affection. Interpersonal commitment and social bonding in this stages. Deterioration is other communication factors such as temporal, cultural or societal context weakens the bond. Intrapersonal and interpersonal dissatisfaction become apparent in this stages. Repair is try to work things out. Intrapersonal and interpersonal repair take place. Dissolution is where bonds are broken. interpersonal and social separation takes place. 

A lot of theory of interpersonal communication, attraction theory, relationship rules theory, relationship dialectics theory, social penetration, social exchange theory and equity theory.
One of the most common example is jealousy. Different types of jealous, cognitive jealousy is suspicious thinking , worrying and exaggeration of thing that you think would occur. 
emotional jealousy is seeing someone you like react to smtg else that is out of your control or reach. Behavioral jealousy is responses changes that take place with the individual as a result of the envy and jealousu.

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